Virtual club focuses on abuse prevention 

Virtual club focuses on abuse prevention 

Members help “alert adults” recognize and address dangers to kids.

By Julie Saetre

For more than five decades, Sharon Doty has worked as an advocate for abused and neglected kids, both professionally through her law practice and as a volunteer for a variety of organizations. When a friend encouraged her to explore Kiwanis membership, she attended meetings of a few virtual clubs, but nothing seemed to fit. 

“We started talking about something that would call to me,” Doty says. “My life has been in service of creating a world where no child ever has to fear being sexually assaulted by someone who says they care about them. My life has been about educating adults how to recognize the potentially risky adults in our environment and how to interrupt behaviors so that kids are not at risk.” 

In September 2024, Doty was part of a group that launched the virtual Keeping Them Safe Kiwanis Club. As its membership chair, she works with the club’s 14 other members to empower Kiwanians to expand their capacity for creating safe, protective environments for kids. The club’s presentations are based on training materials from the Keeping Them Safe organization Doty founded in 1996. 

Identifying behaviors
Through in-person presentations, Zoom meetings, a PowerPoint presentation and more, club members teach other Kiwanians how to recognize behaviors in adults that indicate they could be a threat to children. Multiple studies involving conversations with convicted sexual predators have identified these behaviors, Doty says. And some of them can be easily overlooked. One example: letting a child have or do something their parents have prohibited — such as playing a certain video game or drinking a sugary soda — as long as the child keeps it a secret.  

“I would bet you a million dollars, because I am a grandparent, that there’s not a grandparent, aunt or uncle out there who hasn’t done something mom and dad won’t allow the kids to do, because it’s not harmful in their world,” Doty says. “But you’ve taught the kids two things. One is that it’s OK not to follow mom and dad’s rules. And the second is that if a responsible, trusted adult tells them not to tell mom and dad, that’s OK too.  

“So now, inadvertently, with no intention of causing harm, we have taught them things that create an environment where a predator can access them.” 

The club also teaches Kiwanians non-threatening, non-accusatory methods of addressing such behaviors once they’ve learned to identify them. Something as simple as saying, “Wow, that child’s parents wouldn’t let me give them a soda last week. Let’s double-check with them to make sure it’s OK,” both interrupts the behavior and puts the individual on alert that other people are paying attention. 

Alert adults
While those who hear the club’s presentations find the information helpful, some hesitate to pursue additional training or implementation. The reason, Doty says, is that they’re afraid that simply showing interest in the topic will appear inappropriate to others.  

“We’re not accusing anybody,” Doty says. “These are the things that actually empower and enable us to fulfill this mission of creating safe environments. That kind of interest in being willing to go forward with the conversation is the beginning of something. We want to begin with Kiwanians having ownership of this as a way we can impact the world. I call it a community of alert adults.” 

To reach even more people, the Keeping Them Safe club is creating a library of educational videos and a companion YouTube channel. The club has partnered with a nonprofit that will produce the videos so more individuals can be aware and involved. 

“Our initial goal is to create 12 four-minute videos that educate adults and empower them to create safe environments,” Doty says. 

Virtual clubs and single-focus clubs are two opportunities for Kiwanians to tailor a service experience to their personal interests and goals. Learn more about the various types of Kiwanis clubs. 

5 community connections for any club 

5 community connections for any club 

Whether your club is large, small or in between, these ideas can revitalize service and community engagement.

By Destiny Cherry

Finding service projects can seem daunting for a new Kiwanis club — or when members of an established club run out of ideas. One way to revitalize your club’s service is to connect with organizations in the community. These five community connections can help a club of any size find projects to strengthen local engagement and uplift children and families: 

  1. Connect with a local food bank, pantry or soup kitchen. These organizations give your Kiwanis club two major opportunities: donating time and donating resources. Depending on the availability of club members, a service project can involve donating your time: sorting and storing donations, preparing and serving food to those in need or helping to ration and distribute food. It can also involve donating resources: organizing a can drive within your club and the community and donating proceeds. However your club decides to get involved, this is typically an easy, accessible way to make a large, lasting impact. 
  2. Build connections with a local recreational facility. A nearby recreational facility or community center — such as a YMCA location — might offer a variety of opportunities to get involved. This could include members of your club coaching or serving as an assistant with young sports teams, assisting in childcare centers, lifeguarding at a pool or helping to set up, tear down or supervise the facility’s sponsored events. Each service project is both an opportunity to empower kids through movement and a fun way for members of your club to get involved. 
  3. Partner with schools in your community. Connecting with a local school can result in a lasting partnership and a lasting impact. Some ways to get involved include reading books to younger children, holding a book drive, chaperoning school-sponsored events, tutoring kids in afterschool programs and mentoring.  
  4. Support a local children’s hospital. Get your club and the community involved with a toy drive, write kind notes to patients during the holidays or do activities with the patients and their siblings. Your club could also host a “dance marathon” for adults — challenging them to stay standing or “dance” for an extended period, during which people are encouraged to participate or donate money. This initiative encourages people to “stand” for children who can’t.  
  5. “Build up” the community at construction sites. With the right research, your club can assist with building homes, community and wellness centers, school extensions or playgrounds — all spaces that nurture the growth, learning and safety of children. Site managers can help ensure that all activities are safe and age-appropriate, with the necessary safety equipment provided on-site. Club members would only need to bring closed-toe shoes, comfortable clothing (preferably something they don’t mind getting dirty) and a desire to do some work. Possible tasks include hammering nails, moving smaller debris prebuild, drilling or screwing in nails, painting or minor site cleanup. Tasks can be tailored to each member’s comfort level, and site managers can offer guidance and answer questions along the way.

Connecting through fundraising
Fundraising projects and events can make connecting with your community much easier. Once a connection is made, your new partners can make finding service projects a lot easier. If you’re not sure where to start and want to see what has worked for other clubs, visit the fundraising page on our website. And check out our blog post with other tips for your fundraiser. 

 Don’t forget Kiwanis International’s new partner, Givergy, which provides a platform for fundraising events and projects, with no upfront costs. Learn more!  

India becomes latest Kiwanis district 

India becomes latest Kiwanis district 

The governor-elect shares his thoughts on the occasion.

By Tony Knoderer

India was announced as the newest Kiwanis International district during the organization’s 2025 convention in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, U.S. A provisional district since 2022, India now becomes Kiwanis’ 48th district. Khushwinder Kathpalia is the district’s first governor, and Fahim Rehman is currently governor-elect.

To mark the occasion, Rehman recently shared his thoughts in an email exchange.

How have your fellow Kiwanis members in India reacted to becoming a Kiwanis district?
The excitement was at an extraordinary level. The formation of a district, along with having a governor and a district board, had long been a dream for Indian members. Additionally, there were numerous benefits that accompanied our district status. Last year, we were also awarded as a distinguished district.  

How will becoming a district affect the work Kiwanis clubs do in India?
Certainly, becoming a district will lead to the opening of more clubs because the members are excited and are actively establishing our first board and committees. This organized approach by the district board will result in significant growth in the number of clubs and greater projects.

How do you think India’s district status will affect Kiwanis worldwide?
As we traveled to (Kiwanis International’s) Asia-Pacific, European and international conventions, the bonds of friendship and fellowship became the experience of a lifetime. Since Indians can be found in every corner of this blessed earth, we have assisted many countries by introducing Indian communities there and sharing the Kiwanis mission with them — providing opportunities to help children in need. 

What makes you proudest of India’s Kiwanians?
India is a vast and diverse country — rich in culture, spirit and youth. But within this vibrant population lies a deep disparity. Through our work with Kiwanis, we have come face-to-face with stories that are both heartbreaking and inspiring — stories that have changed us. 
 
We’ve seen children climbing mountain paths to reach schools, wearing nothing but flip-flops on rough, unforgiving terrain. We’ve met students who brave the cold in worn-out clothes, determined to learn despite the odds. In remote regions, we’ve encountered schools where children with disabilities live and study, often without the resources they deserve. 
 
In some government girls’ schools, we discovered there were no proper sanitation facilities. With the support of Kiwanis clubs, we’ve been able to build clean, safe toilets — a small but life-changing step toward dignity and empowerment for young girls. 
 
One of the most meaningful initiatives is a project where health insurance is provided to baby girls at birth. This not only ensures medical support but also actively works against gender-based abortions — a quiet but powerful movement toward equality. 
 
From providing clothes and food to ensuring access to clean water and quality education, each project we take on is driven by a simple but profound mission: to make life better for children. 
 
These aren’t just projects — they’re lifelines. And they are the reason we are proud to be part of Kiwanis. Together, we are not just helping children; we are helping shape a future where no child is left behind.