Break the format for fellowship

Break the format for fellowship

Make it fun to be with your club by considering a few ideas beyond the usual Kiwanis activities. 

By Tony Knoderer

The strongest Kiwanis clubs grow because people want to join — and want to come back. That requires a very important element: fun.  

Sometimes it’s good to do things besides your regular club meetings and service projects. Here are a few ideas for going beyond the typical format to build camaraderie:  

  • Rent space at a local sports venue for pregame snacks, drinks and appetizers. Then share a seating block to cheer on the home team.  
  • Try a team-building activity such as a ropes course or an escape room.  
  • Schedule activities around the seasons: a hayride or bonfire in the fall, hot cocoa and cookies in the winter, a nature walk in the spring, an ice cream social or outdoor concert in the summer.   
  • Host an annual thank-you event in a casual setting. Whether it’s brunch at a local restaurant or an outdoor picnic or barbecue, members will appreciate a time and place to relax and converse. 

However you build fellowship in your club, make sure potential members are welcome too — so they can see that Kiwanis is about fun as well as service. Want an idea? Watch our recent podcast episode in which a member of the Kiwanis Club of Ottawa, Ontario, Canada, discusses its monthly “Kiwanis Socials.”

How to make a small-town club big

How to make a small-town club big

In Steilacoom, Washington, U.S., a roster with local leaders strengthens meetings and membership.

By Tony Knoderer

Smaller towns don’t always mean smaller Kiwanis clubs. Consider the Kiwanis Club of Steilacoom, Washington, U.S. In a community of about 6,500 people, the club currently has over 150 members. And it’s known throughout the town for service projects and fundraisers like its annual Winefest, which includes dinner, wine tasting and more. 

That kind of engagement is a good way to make a club’s name prominent in a community — and to attract people who want to be members.  

But there’s another key element to the club’s success: It has a history of including local leaders on its membership roster. One of those members is the current mayor of Steilacoom, Dick Muri (pictured at right during an induction event, with 2024-25 club president Patrick Kennedy at left). 

A Kiwanian since becoming a Steilacoom charter member in 1993, Muri was elected to the local school board in 1997 — becoming the first member of the club to win office while he was a member. (The second, in 2002, was Ron Lucas, then the town’s mayor.) 

“Our club started with close ties to the school district,” Muri says. “Our club’s charter president, John Jewell, was our local elementary school’s principal. In 1999, our school district’s superintendent, Art Himmler, became our club’s president.” 

Now, Muri says, there are 11 elected officials in the club: all five current school board members, the five current council members and Muri.  

“People with political aspirations, they see that,” Muri adds. “It’s a small town — and we are, after all, a social organization.” 

A great answer
The club’s appeal for local leaders isn’t just a closed loop that exclusively attracts other local leaders. It’s also an effective way of spreading the word about Kiwanis to service-minded people throughout the community.   

“Elected officials have lots of contacts,” Muri says. “When I first ran for mayor and knocked on doors, about one in 20 people would ask, ‘How can I get involved in the town?’ The Kiwanis club was a great answer.” 

For Muri, who currently chairs the club’s membership committee, that experience provided an additional recruiting lesson: “Knocking on doors still works.” 

But he and his fellow members are aware of how important it is to use more modern forms of outreach. For example, the club joined Facebook in 2009. As with many Kiwanis clubs, the social media platform has been an efficient way of showing people what it’s like to be in the club — by promoting club events, posting photos and videos of projects and even sharing links to presentations made at club meetings. (A recent video shared the dedication ceremony for a new swing the club installed at the local Kiwanis Pioneer Park.) 

“If you don’t take the picture and give it a good write-up, it didn’t happen,” Muri says. “You don’t have to brag, but you do have to let people know what’s happening.” 

The club also uses its Facebook page to stay in consistent contact with people — members and nonmembers alike.  

“We tell people, ‘You can join our Facebook group and see what we do,’” Muri says. “If one out of 10 of those people join, that’s solid growth.” 

Civics 101
Another well-known feature of the Steilacoom club is the quality of its meetings — particularly the guest speakers. Recent meetings have included presentations about the W. M. Keck Observatory in Hawaii, U.S., the state of the Russia-Ukraine conflict and more. 

Muri partly credits the networking reach of the club’s roster, which also includes accomplished professionals and five former U.S. military generals — such as the club’s 2025-26 president, Rick Ash, a retired brigadier general. (Muri himself retired from the U.S. Air Force as a lieutenant colonel in 1998.)   

“I tell people, ‘Join our club or just come to the meetings — you’ll get a Civics 101 education,’” Muri says.  

It’s also important, he adds, to appeal to people across the social and political spectrums. In Steilacoom, the club — which regularly meets in the morning — has a few evening events each year, ranging from a potluck dinner to a Cinco de Mayo celebration. 

“In a small town or city, a Kiwanis club can be a nexus,” Muri says. “Why not be the center of your community?” 

How a club gained a young leader 

How a club gained a young leader 

In a few years, Kimi Mason has gone from Key Club to Kiwanis club president. 

By Tony Knoderer

There are many good reasons for a Kiwanis club to sponsor a Key Club. Here’s one of the best: Many members of Kiwanis International’s Service Leadership Program for teens eventually become Kiwanis club members after they graduate.

And then there are members like Kimi Mason (pictured, third from right), a recent Key Club alumna who is 2025-26 president of the Kiwanis Club of Liberty, Missouri, U.S.

Mason’s membership — and her Kiwanis club leadership — are not a matter of luck or random chance. The Liberty club works closely with the three area Key Clubs that it sponsors, as well as the faculty members who also serve as Key Club advisors. So it makes sense when those Key Clubbers remain interested in service and leadership after high school.  

“My faculty advisor from high school, Wendy Sohm, invited me to a meeting,” Mason says. “She just said, ‘Hey, if you’re still interested in continuing your journey, check us out.’ And so I did.  

“I still wanted to be involved, so I committed — and here I am.” 

Keeping connections
Before graduating from Liberty North High School in 2021, Mason was the Key Club’s secretary as a sophomore and then its president in her junior and senior years. One of the Kiwanians who made Key Club a positive experience for her was Jim Major, whose support as the Kiwanis advisor showed her how important a Kiwanian’s presence can be — for both the Key Club and the Kiwanis club. 

“Jim is really good about keeping us connected,” she says. “He always tried to come to all of our meetings and to relay information about what was going on with us to Kiwanis.” 

That connection has continued into Mason’s Kiwanis membership. Five current members of the sponsored Key Clubs — from Liberty, Liberty North and Excelsior High Schools — were part of her installation ceremony as the Kiwanis club’s president. (See photo.)

“We have a pretty good, pretty strong relationship with them,” Mason says. “We involve them when we can, in things like our Liberty Fall Fest Parade and our annual pancake breakfast fundraiser. So usually at installation dinner he’ll invite kids from all three Key Clubs that we sponsor.” 

A member and a mentor
Major has been supporting members of Kiwanis Youth Programs since 2012. After joining the Simi Valley Kiwanis Club in California, U.S., the year before, he started a K-Kids club and then became its Kiwanis advisor in 2013. In the following years, he also worked with the club’s sponsored Builders Club. 

“In 2014 I was asked by our Simi Valley president, Don Sturt, to start working with the Key Clubs,” Major says. “I started working with both the Royal High and Simi Valley High Key Clubs, and soon after I was asked to help our Region 10 Advisor Stacie Marotta. I enjoyed this and the kids seemed to respond well to me.”   

Major himself filled the role in 2015-16 when Marotta stepped down. When he retired from his career in aerospace manufacturing in 2017, he moved to Kearney, Missouri — and quickly got involved with Kiwanis and Key Club in his new state. Since Kearney didn’t have a Kiwanis club, he joined the Liberty club, as well as the Gladstone Kiwanis Club, and soon afterward he was mentoring Key Clubs again.  

Of course, one of those mentored members was Mason. When she and Major reconnected as members of the Liberty Kiwanis club in 2023, her level of involvement was no surprise.  

“Kimi became an active member right from the start,” Major says.  

Becoming president within a couple years of joining the club has provided further evidence of something that many Kiwanians have discovered: Sometimes the busiest people make the most effective leaders. When the club’s previous president, Ashley Rivera, told her she’d be a good fit for the role, Mason was hesitant. A young adult who works as a classroom paraprofessional, she worried about the time commitment.  

“If I can’t commit 100%, I feel like I can’t commit at all,” Mason says, “but that isn’t always the case. I just was afraid that I wasn’t going to be fully in, but it ended up working out just fine.” 

Major adds: “Now it’s our job, as members, to support and mentor her in this next step in her growth.” 

Letting them lead
For Major, one of the most gratifying aspects of being a Key Club advisor is watching young people like Mason grow. He also has learned a few things himself. 

“You don’t build leaders by leading but by letting them lead,” he says. “This was taught to me before by a dear friend and school advisor at Simi Valley High School. Her words were: ‘You stand behind them, and when they come to that cliff and have one foot over the edge, you grab their collar and pull them back to safety.’ This has been my guiding principle since Day One.” 

Now that Major and Mason are fellow Kiwanis members, they’re working together to support the next generation of leaders — and in some cases, future Kiwanis members.  

“Kiwanis clubs show them that someone is always in their corner, ready to give an unbiased nudge when they need to take their next step,” Major says. “I feel truly blessed and honored to have the opportunity to touch the hearts and souls of so many of our future leaders on their journey to adulthood.”